Once you have learned about your own style and have studied the other styles, I encourage you to have a little fun in trying to determine the styles of others. If I contact you I am looking to meet a new gal that likes to have fun on the side with someone I'm compatible with, Who also would be ok with him watching, and not participating accept with me. Married man, but rather in need of female intimacy.
Respectful, local and would like to hang out for quiet evengs most of the time, but when the occasion calls for it I dress appropriately. Ideally a FWB situation.